06 January 2012 ~ 22 Comments

Failing With Success

[This is a guest post a part of "Guest Post Fridays". If you are interested in guest posting, please let me know in the comments, and I will contact you.]

Dan Black is passionate about helping others discover leadership principles based on God’s Word. You can check out his blog or follow him on twitter and facebook.

“Dancoff’s formula, known as the principle of maximum error, can be stated as follows, Optimum development occurs when an organism (A Leader) makes the maximum number of mistakes consistent with survival. In other words, the more mistakes you make, the closer you become to your best possible self, providing the mistakes don’t kill you.”

The success and growth of a leader often comes through the leader’s failure. Getting out there and failing is a factor for success. I would go one step further and say that “Optimum development occurs” and success happens through evaluated error and failure. In order to fail with success a leader needs to evaluate the failures that happen to themselves and the company.

Even though a leader has the chance to grow and learn during a failure the truth is that it could affect others. It could have short or long term consequences. But remember that when you evaluate your failure it will eventually turn out to benefit yourself and others. Here are some people who could be effected because of a failure:

  • The leader
  • The followers
  • The company
  • The stock holders
  • Current customers
  • Potential customers

No matter the effects make sure you turn your failures into stepping stones for success. Take responsibility for the mistake or failure and allow it take you to a new level of development. The only time you have failed at failing is when you stop trying and when you don’t evaluate the situation. Here are a few ways you know you have effectively evaluated a failure:

You know what you could have done differently.
You now know what you can do in the future.
You take responsibility for it.
You have the right attitude about it.
You have developed and learned through the situation.

The next time you fail know that it’s part of leadership and it’s the pathway to success. We can learn and develop if we are willing to evaluate a failure or mistake. Leaders should know everyone who might be effected because of the failure and be able to take full responsibility of the situation. I hope I shared with you the upside of failing and would encourage you to keep leading. keep failing until you reach your purpose and are successful.

Question:  How do you Fail successfully?

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  • Louis

    “The only time you have failed at failing is when you stop trying and when you don’t evaluate the situation.” Very true. Reflection is such an important thing because it allows us to view a situation from a step back. Great guest post!

    • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

      Louis,
      The challenging part is to take the time to reflect and learn from the failure. Thank you for sharing.

      • jonstolpe

        We try to have “Lessons Learned” meetings to recap our successes and challenges for each of our projects. This can help us learn how to overcome the failure points and to continue with what is working.

        • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

          What a great idea. Such a great way to learn and grow. Thank you for sharing.

    • http://bigb94.info Brandon

      I totally agree with you, Louis! You have only failed if you have given up.

  • jonstolpe

    “The person who doesn’t make mistakes is unlikely to make anything.” Paul Arden
    If we’re not failing, we’re not succeeding.

    • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

      Great quote!!! Thank you for sharing it.

  • http://bigb94.info Brandon

    “No matter the effects make sure you turn your failures into stepping stones for success. Take responsibility for the mistake or failure and allow it take you to a new level of development.”

    That has to be one of my favorite sections of this post. Turning your failures into stepping stones is important. I have failed many times, but I try to learn from it…and then do even better.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kaylieking7 Kaylie King

    Failing to end up having success is so true! I mean look at scientists…they have to try over and over…or musicians I know I can’t just read music like I read other books it takes practice! Good blog! :)

    • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

      Kaylie,
      Great points. Becoming better takes practice and part of practice is making mistakes and failing. It’s part of becoming better. Thank you for sharing.

  • http://dustn.tv Dustin W. Stout

    I fail successfully by chalking it up as a win. Like Thomas Edison said, he didn’t fail 1,000 times leading up to inventing the light bulb, he just found 1,000 ways NOT to make a light bulb.

    • http://bigb94.info Brandon

      Great example!

    • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

      Dustin,
      What a perfect example of failing with success. Thank you for reading the post.

  • http://applesproductnews.wordpress.com Josh with tech4thewin

    Great Post,

    Visit my new tech blog

    http://tech4thewin.wordpress.com/

    • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

      Josh,
      Thank you. I’ll head over and check your blog out.

      • http://www.tech4thewin.wordpress.com Josh with tech4thewin

        Thanks! The site is just starting up. It is a tech review site for new technology.

        I am Brandon’s brother by the way…

        • http://danblackonleadership.info Dan Black

          Oh, nice. Looking forward to learning more about new technology.

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  • http://tcavey.blogspot.com/ TC Avey

    “keep failing until you reach your purpose and are successful” That’s gold!

    Great post. Mistakes don’t have to hold us back or break us…they should motivate us to try try try again. Reminds me of the Edison quote: “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

    • http://bigb94.info Brandon

      That’s a great quote and an awesome outlook on life!

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